How to calm aggression in nursing patients: Tips for successful de-escalation

Care patients often find themselves in extraordinary life situations that can be emotionally, mentally and physically stressful for them. In such moments, they sometimes react unpredictably. Conflicts and aggression are therefore unfortunately part of Everyday Care. But with the right strategies, you can defuse conflicts early on, maintain your safety and help your patients regain their composure. Nursing patients often find themselves in extraordinary life situations that can be emotionally, mentally and physically stressful for them. In such moments, they sometimes react unpredictably. Conflicts and aggression are therefore unfortunately part of everyday nursing care. But with the right strategies, you can defuse conflicts at an early stage, maintain your safety and help your patients to regain their composure.

Why is de-escalation so important in care?

Imagine you walk into the room of Mrs. Meier, who suffers from dementia, in the morning. Normally she greets you in a friendly manner, but today everything is different. She screams, resists your help and seems completely beside herself. You realize that the situation is getting dicey. Now you need to act calmly and de-escalate the situation.

De-escalation is essential in such situations. It helps you:

• Stay safe, by defusing aggression early.
• Protecting the well-being of your patients, without upsetting them further.
• Trust and respect build up, even in challenging moments.

Understanding the phases of escalation

In order to defuse conflicts, it is important to know the different escalation phases. Each phase requires specific measures to control the situation:

Normal phase 

The patient is behaving as usual. There are no signs of aggression.

Trigger phase

An event, such as pain or frustration, triggers initial tension.

Transition phase

Aggressive behavior such as loud speaking or defensive gestures occur.

Crisis phase

The patient is directing their anger at a target, and there is potential danger.

Destructive phase

The patient has lost control and physical aggression ensues.

Recovery phase

The aggression subsides, the patient slowly calms down.

Resolution phase

The patient is relaxed and responsive again.

Basic rules of de-escalation

Early intervention

The sooner you recognize signs of aggression, the better you can act. Early intervention often prevents a situation from escalating.

Keep calm

Your behaviour influences your patient's mood. Speak softly, maintain a relaxed posture and radiate calmness. Patients often mirror your calmness.

Emotional control

Even if your patient's behavior is bothering you, don't show anger or frustration. Remain friendly and focused. Your level-headed attitude shows that you are in control.

Words not deeds

Avoid pressuring the patient or intervening physically unless there is acute danger. Calm, appreciative Communication often works wonders.

Keep your distance

Respect your patient's personal space. Approaching too closely can be perceived as a threat and exacerbate the situation.

De-escalation techniques for everyday care

Validation

Validation means acknowledging and validating your patient's feelings without judging them. Often patients do not feel heard or understood. Validation helps to break through this barrier.
Example: "I can see that you're frustrated. That's understandable. Let's see together how I can help you."

Karin's story

Karin, an experienced nurse in adolescent psychiatry, had a young patient who suddenly became aggressive. Through her calm approach and validation, she was able to calm him down. She found out that a harmless sentence she had said had triggered a traumatic memory. Today, Karin knows what to look out for with him and the patient trusts her.

Practical steps for difficult moments

• Recognize signs of aggression early.Body language and tone of voice reveal a lot.
• Speak reassuringly. Use clear, calm words and avoid commands such as "Calm down!"
• Help if needed. Sometimes a neutral colleague is the better choice to mediate.

When de-escalation is not enough

Sometimes even the best techniques are not enough and a situation becomes dangerous. In such cases:

• Hole support immediately. Call in colleagues or security personnel.
• Save yourself and others. Remove if the situation escalates.
• Handle professionally. Document the incident to develop solutions for the future.

Care and Reflection

After a stressful situation, it is important to take care of the patient, other people present and also yourself.

For the patient

• Speak calmly about what happened. Show understanding and clarify misunderstandings.
• Work together Prevention measures.

For others affected

• Listen. Other patients or colleagues could be emotionally affected.
• Offer support. Involve psychological help if needed.
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For yourself

• Reflect the situation. What worked? What can you do better next time?
• Take time to relax. Talk to colleagues or your supervisor if the situation was stressful.

Continuing-education: Your chance with noracares

De-escalation is a skill that you can further improve through training. noracares offers practical courses to help you act confidently and effectively in conflict situations.

This is what you will learn with us:

• Recognizing early warning signs of aggression.
• Practical de-escalation techniques for everyday care.
• Dealing with emotional distress and self-care.

De-escalation is a key to safe and successful care. With empathy, calmness and the right techniques, you can defuse conflicts even in difficult situations and strengthen the trust of your patients.

Use the possibilities of noracares to expand your skills and master the daily care routine. Register today and become part of our community!

Nora's Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

• De-escalation: Measures to prevent or reduce conflict and aggression.
• Validation: Technique for acknowledging patients' feelings and making them feel understood.
• Crisis Phase: The point at which a patient directs anger at a target.
• Reflection: Review and analyze situations to make improvements for the future.
• Personal zone: The distance a person needs to feel safe and not harassed.